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How often do we take the one we love for granted yet treat our bosses and colleagues with the utmost respect? Shave, exfoliate, moisturise and put on a decent pair of jeans even if you’re just sitting on the couch reading the paper together. Be polite. Ask them if they mind if you have the last slice of cheesecake. It makes a world of difference.
The key is to listen. Then give your view bearing in mind that, as two different people, you’ll never have exactly the same opinion. Rather come to a rough compromise that works for both of you.
The worst thing you can do is lose yourself in a relationship. Don’t stop taking part in activities that interest you. There’s nothing sexier than someone who is passionate about something, whether it’s karate or painting. That’s what your partner fell in love with in the first place: YOU.
Your partner is not your enemy. Try not to run down your partner’s failings but look for their strengths instead. If they are lacking in a quality, try to take on those roles and vice versa. In doing so you are stronger as a couple than as individuals competing with one another.
Inherent trust is built through reassurance. When meeting an attractive acquaintance, introduce your partner while maintaining physical contact like stroking their back. This way your partner knows your attention is still purely on them.
Don’t get lazy with declaring your love. Affirm it every day of your lives. It’s more than just saying “I love you” – it’s doing little things. Buy flowers for no reason; write love notes to each other. Take time to go on dates, cook together. Enjoy spending your lives together.
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